What I Learned Today: Ted Talk Thursdays

It's Thursday and you know what that means! Ted Talks were on TV tonight...here's what I learned today:

I must be careful of which Ted Talks I listen to. If not, I get very discouraged and wonder what the heck I have done with my life?! Why I can't understand what the heck some of these people are talking about. Even with degrees and certifications, Ted Talks can make you feel real dumb. LOL

The criminal justice system is changing. The same system that is used in baseball's "Money Ball" system is being brought to the CJ system. It's quite interesting how they are predicting who will be violent criminals etc based off of statistics. But it will also help de-crowd the jails of nonviolent people of the likes of those who have been waiting eight months for a hearing on stealing a blanket when it was freezing outside and they had no where to go.

Every cell in the human body has a sex. This of course makes males and females different in both diseases and treatments. Many women suffer unnecessarily because doctors treat women's bodies as men's. So, next time a woman you know is diagnosed with any disease - mental or physical - have them ask "Is this treatable differently in women than in men?" or "Is this diagnosed differently in women than in men?"...what ever you do, if you are a woman, make sure you push the fact that our bodies are different and should be treated as such.

We watched a few more but really, they were so far over my head that I don't even think it mattered much...something about bats and meerkats and social bonds etc...anywho!

GN!!

What I Learned Today: How To Make Gumbo, Ring Removal

Today was day number one of state shut down. Due to the snow we had, the government thought it best in each county to shut things down for the safety of its citizens. Long story short, it was a SNOW DAY!! Well, not really in this household because we home school. But I wasn't completely cold-hearted. I gave the kids a "half day" of academic work so they could play with their neighborhood friends for the rest of the day. And play they did. In the words of my daughter "THIS WAS THE BEST DAY EVERRR!!!". LOL.

Cold weather naturally makes me want to make soups. I didn't want the typical bean soups or veggie soups though. I wanted shrimp gumbo. So, I found three recipes, mashed them together and made one pot of awesome gumbo. YUM! Even had to brave the snow - not really, I'm from Wisconsin - to go up the street to the store to get my shrimp.  I'll share with you my recipe if you promise to keep it a secret! ;-)

Ingredients:

3 tablespoons flour
3 tablespoons oil
1 lbs (or as much/less as you want) fresh or frozen cut okra
1 large onion, chopped
1 large green bell pepper, chopped
1 large red bell pepper, chopped
 (A bag of the onion/pepper fajita mix worked just fine for me)
3 stalks chopped celery
1 can (14.5 ounce size) diced tomatoes, undrained
3 cloves fresh garlic, minced
1/4 teaspoon ground red cayenne pepper
1/4 teaspoon pepper
1 1/2 teaspoons paprika
1/2 teaspoon dried oregano
1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
2 teaspoons hot sauce
*Added – Old Bay Seasoning, Sage, and Salt – to taste*
1 package (31/40ct) shrimp, rinsed - shell and de-vein them.
3 chicken thighs skinned and off the bone
6-8 cups water
1 cup uncooked regular long-grain white rice and 2 cups water



Directions:
Brown chicken seasoned with salt and pepper.

In small sauce pan (Or your gumbo pot), combine flour and oil; mix well. Cook, stirring constantly, over medium-high heat for 5 minutes. This is your Roux. Reduce heat to medium; cook, stirring constantly, about 10 minutes or until mixture turns reddish brown. Place flour-oil mixture in your gumbo pot if you used a sauce pan.

Stir in all remaining ingredients - starting with the garlic, peppers, onions and celery until tender, then okra and tomatoes. Add 6 cups water and seasoning. Boil until the okra is the texture you want.

What I Learned Today: I can make gumbo!!! This was my first batch and it was a hit! The way we ate had to be a sin...smh Lord have mercy. It was really good.

Youtube can be very useful. We've learned many of emotionally "life saving" things from there - like, how to remove dark wood stain from your white carpet using WD-40. But today, I don't know why, my husband found a video about ring removal. You know how sometimes your hands swell in the morning, or maybe you injured your upper limb and our fingers swell? Well, if you are wearing a ring on it at the time, your ring can cut off your circulation and destroy your finger. Most times people use something slippery to remove the ring, or if they can't do that, they cut it off. That can be traumatizing. So youtube showed us a better way...

What I Learned Today: Use something like an elastic band (think the kind of band you would find on an oxygen mask) wrap it tightly from the tip of your ring finger to the base next to the ring. Push the band under the ring and slowly unravel from the base. It will compress the swollen tissues and act as a kind of screw the twist the ring off the finger over the compressed tissue. And there you have it! Your ring in tact and your finger not destroyed :-)  Aww, shucks *blushing*....you're welcome!

GN!!

What I Learned Today: Politics and Illegally Blind

Back on the blog writing out my thoughts...and since most of the world know the State Of The Union Address was tonight, many of my thoughts are on that...

You know, it's really disheartening to see just how blind people are. No matter where you stand on politics, people are blind of two things:

1. Who runs this world and everything in it -including politricks (2 Corinthians 4:4, 1 John 5:19)
2. Politricks (of ALL kind) is a facade that is put here to put people in bondage (Revelation 13)

They don't want to see, hear, or speak it - blind, deaf, and mute...

If any of you have read my blogs from a couple of days ago, I put out some videos that I think every American and Christian should watch. They do a really nice and in-depth overview of the founding of this nation, it's core beliefs, and its future. It also gives you an insight into the politics of this nation - and why things are set up the way they are. Let's just say, it's not peaches and cream and the "free country" everyone thinks it is.

Sad thing is, when you try to explain this to people who: 1. have blind loyalty to this country and its leaders like they are their long lost uncles/aunts 2. Weak Christians who want to hide behind prayer and "waitin on da Lawed", (not that that's a bad thing, but God does call us to stay watchful, be vigilant, expose evil, speak the truth in a dark world, and come out from among it- pretty much put yourself out there and sacrifice yourself if need be for Him) it is not well received.

It makes me see just how small this spiritual battlefield is on the Lord's side. But then when I think about it, in every battle the Lord's side in the "natural" was always amazingly small compared to that of the enemy's. It's been by His design so that WE will recognize His power and that we did not, or will not, win this war by our might.

What I Learned Today: I can almost tell who will be on the side of the Lord on the battlefield by how much blind loyalty they are in. Unfortunately those who are even partially blind will succumb to the great deception that is to come and is already here as well as the lawless one who will appear....that makes me incredibly sad...

John 14:6
Jesus told him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me". <----my loyalty belongs to That Guy....and Him only.....those with ears, let them hear....

GN!

*Side note - blindness doesn't just come from politics, anything that the world loves will make you blind and distract you from the reality of the Father in Heaven. That includes music, unnatural loyalty to sports, media/entertainment, "night life", addictions, sexual immorality....pick a "sin" as described in the bible that people looove to do, it will make you blind. It comes from the enemy and if you looked at the scriptures above, you see how he makes you blind. Think about it....what blinds you?

What I Learned Today: My daughter has the entrepreneurial bug, Martial Arts, Patois

So, my husband and I have created this tradition. On Thursday nights, we have TED Talk night where we watch a few videos that make us laugh and think together. On Friday nights is Family Movie Night where the kids get to pick a video and we watch it together over dinner and at night is our turn to watch a movie together. Our usual choice is some kind of martial art video. Well, we discovered over the weekend, we have watched just about every Chinese and Japanese martial art video our Amazon Prime account had to offer (we don't like the ones set in "modern" day times where they are fighting in cities like, New York or something...it just doesn't seem right. We are more traditional in our martial art movie watching.) Well, we decided to venture out of our norm and watch a Thai martial arts movie...and WOW!! That's some good fighting!

What I learned: Thai fighting is brutal but effective. Also, their god resembles them an awful lot.

Z's brain for the last couple of years

My baby girl is always trying to come up with some sort of business. Last year she wanted a lemonade stand. The year before that she wanted to constantly have garage sales. This past fall, she wanted to sell oak tree seeds and pine cones (we live in the city of oaks and lobbly pines, you can get these in your own yard). Last week she gathered some stones and sticks and wanted to sell them to the neighborhood kids. I quickly discouraged that for fear of some kid paying her $5 for some rocks she probably got out of their yard LOL. I don't need angry parents at my door. But today, today! Today she came up with a brilliant idea that involves her love for sewing and creativity. It was so good, that tomorrow morning I am going to have her learn about writing up a business plan and about implementation. I see real potential in that idea and I hope she sees it through.

What I learned today: The road to being a true entrepreneur is missing the mark until you hit the bulls eye. Then once you hit the bulls eye, you keep aiming and firing away until it becomes a part of you. Never get discouraged, it might take a while to hit that eye though.

Yesterday, I watched a video of a young Jamaican girl having a fit because of something her aunt told her to do. This baby was ticked off!! And she tickled me pink listening to her attitude and thick accent. So, I decided to "learn" Patois - and low and behold, Youtube has a channel for that!

What I Learned Today: Patois is an official language and they are actually working on standardizing it for teaching. I wonder if I can use that as a foreign language for the kiddos? LOL

Likkle More! (Bye!)

What I Learned Today: Ted Talk Thursdays

Hey!

So, I think every Thursday, I'm going to share a few things from Ted Talk. My husband and I spend our Thursday evenings watching them together. It's our time to unwind, learn, laugh, talk, and think together. I'm learning to really value this time. And since we are making a habit out of it, and I'm learning something, I figured, I'd take you on the journey with me....

So, without further ado.....

1. I've learned there is a man who has made complete structures from paper tubes! I mean, sound structures that people can live and work in! Talk about cost effective!

2. I've learned sometimes your disability can be your greatest asset. No need to feel down about it. Use it as a stepping stone and not a millstone...

3. I've learned that in order for a child to succeed in school, they need a safe environment to live. How can we expect them to concentrate on passing tests when life is failing them? This young man's poem hits home.

4. I've learned I really hope that one day, my children will find a passion that will lead them into more knowledge of things around them. This young man's interest in making bows lead him into loving the history of his people.

5. I've learned that people are way to easy to fool. If you can control someone's attention, there's lots you can do behind their backs. Been seeing that a lot lately in this world. That's sad...but this video drives the point home in a fun way.

6. I've learned that if I tried to do what this young man does with yoyos, I'd (in the words of my husband) would have FOUR black eyes! LOL

7. I've learned (for all my techy friends) that Agile can work in the family dynamic. My hubby is a software engineer and he talks about Agile all the time. So I'm somewhat familiar. So when this video popped up, we both were all ears. It's an interesting concept in how to run your home - especially with children. We do some of this stuff already, but talked about how we could implement others if needed.

I'm starting to love Ted Talk Thursdays! I feel so smart after LOL :-)

GN!!

What I Learned Today: Stuff YOU Need To Know

Ok, so tonight will be really brief. I spent the day looking at some videos and catching up on some news....

First off, there is a group on YouTube by the name "The Fuel Project". Many people who are my "friends" on FB know I talk of them often. They have a few good series of videos and have started a new series yesterday. I will post the link to one complete series that I think EVERYone should watch, and the other that just started.

http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLCED9C361662866BD  <--complete series

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4ZHtNeCTNA   and   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbJyHoFOa_Y  <--1st and 2nd part of this beginning of the series


Second, there are a couple of videos that I think every American citizen and Christian should watch. You can find it on Amazon Prime (for free) if you have an account, it may be on Netflix too.

The first is called: "The Hidden Faith of Our Founding Fathers"
The second is called: "Riddles In Stone".

There are some things in those videos that are VERY telling about where we are now and where we came from as a country. Be prepared to be mind blown. And no, it's not a conspiracy....smh.

Last, please pay attention to what is happening in Kyiv - or as we call it - Kiev. There are some key players involved and it's not looking pretty.

What I Learned Today: The things I've suspected are things I've actually known and have already been revealed. And my goodness, I haven't even scratched the surface....

GN!!

What I Learned Today: Perspective, Chewing Gum for Cavities, Old Days

Let It Snow? NO!

Ok, so about seven months ago, my family and I moved from the bitter and cold mid-west to the nice warm south. Why? WEATHER had a major part in our decision. We were tired of the white stuff. Lord knows, I love Him and ALL His creation...but sometimes I want to love and admire His creation on a postcard. Tonight however, it snowed and oooh how it gave me PTSD. I mean, we moved down here to get away from that stuff! And what's worse? They got the nerve to "delay" school tomorrow, because it "snowed" less than two inches tonight. Who does that? Oh, right...the south.

What I learned today: C'mon man...snow? Really? I am ready for the sunshine and the heat! Enough of this "southern snow" and all the craziness that comes with it already! smh....Been there, done that, and I probably MADE the T-Shirt....lol

Chewing Gum for Cavities

Did you know that the military is now using chewing gum that can be used to get rid of cavities? The gum is fortified with an ingredient that that boosts the body’s ability to kill the bacteria that causes plaque build up which causes cavities. They say that so many soldiers have problems with cavities that it is costing a lot of money to take care of the problem. But my thinking is.....why aren't these soldiers brushing their teeth? I understand if you are out in the field, a toothbrush may be hard to come by. But those who aren't...um, what's the excuse? Why are grown folk walkin around with the stank mouth? But then I remembered another study that talked about cavities have nothing to do with tooth eating bacteria but everything to do with diet. When our bodies are deficient in minerals in one area, it will find it in another to make up for it - and sometimes, that can be the teeth. So now the question is - can our troops get more nutrition so that they won't need GUM to help with tooth decay?

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/military-creates-gum-fight-army-plaque-problem-article-1.1586632#ixzz2r6HZ0Zmr

What I learned today: Sometimes we create more problems when all we have to do is go to the root and fix what's wrong. Have these men and women eat healthy meals and remind them to brush their teeth please....


Old Days

Jazz Dance Competition in Their Sleep

Tonight, my husband and kids took a trip down memory lane. All my life I haven't been much of a picture taker. Then, I regret it years later when I want to remember "the way we were". Luckily, my husband is the opposite and he has pictures upon pictures of the children as babies. Those kids got a kick out of learning how they were as little ones. They loved the stories that matched each picture. They loved seeing mommy "bald headed" (I used to cut my hair very low back then) and daddy with hair (he's bald now).

What I learned today: When memory fails, those pictures help you come up with a thousand words!

What I learned yesterday....Chiropractic Care, Timing, Spoiled Brats

Sorry about not being able to get this done yesterday. It was pretty busy. No, we weren't out participating in MLK festivities...I have my own views on that that I'll be sharing later. But we were busy doing "family" stuff - doc appts, hanging out at the park, shopping for upcoming gardening projects. But with all the fun, I was able to squeeze in some thoughts about what I learned yesterday.

Chiropractic Lesson

So, I took my son to his first chiropractic care appointment. WOW what a wealth of info! Never knew how much our nervous system affects everything from our posture and muscles to how well our organs operate. We had a really nice science lesson yesterday. And I think I might even make an appointment to go get my "back cracked". She adjusted my son a little bit. It made my eyes bug out a bit in seeing it, but it didn't look painful. He loved it. But, he's weird like his momma LOL ;-)

What I learned yesterday: It seems that many physical illnesses and problems can be traced to misalignment of the spine. That causes pressure on the nerves with distorts the signal from the brain to an organ etc. If you have having muscle, skeletal, immune, or organ trouble, look into chiropractic care. It could be helpful....

Timing

While driving home after a long day, we happened to see a news camera man recording an MLK statue. That led to a pretty long discussion about idols and false perceptions. Now, I'm not a "conspiracy theorist" but I do believe in telling the WHOLE truth to my children. But this led me to this thought. Lately, I had been seeing a lot of posts about the reality of this man, as well as others who are held in "high esteem" both in the "black culture" and the "white culture" - I hate those terms, but it is what it is. I watched a movie over the weekend where they were talking about the faith of the founding fathers and one figure in particular that no one has heard of wrote a manuscript that told the whole truth about the movement that the "founding fathers" of America were pushing. BUT he never published it because he didn't want to taint the public's perception of who these men were. I find that in today's society as well. It's amazing how people will overlook the terrible faults of one person just because of one or two "great things" they've done. Don't get me wrong, I'm appreciative - but lets remember these are men to be thanked, not glorified and worshiped. And I see the necks and eyes rolling. "HOW DARE YOU TALK ABOUT DOCTA MARTIN LUTHA D' KANG LIKE THAT!!" Yeah, I see you. And that's exactly what I'm talking about. Which is why, I tell my children the whole truth. But, back to my point about timing...

What I learned yesterday: You can't give people the truth while they are in the throws of excitement. They are blinded by the emotion and festivities. It's best to do it when things simmer down and the excitement is long gone. Like now, it's a good time to bring out the truth of "holidays" that have passed....

Bratty Kids

Last thing. Bratty kids. I can't stand them. You know the kind, that demand things because they feel justified in having them. The kind that tell their parents what they want instead of asking? The kind that expect things just because they have told their parents that's what they want - and if it does happen, it spirals them into more brattiness because they assume that because they TOLD their parents what they wanted that's why they got it. They never take into account that maaaybe, just maybe, the parent just wanted to bless them with something despite their attitude - or maybe that the parent had already planned on getting that thing for them and it was already on the way before they "demanded" it.

I dealt with that yesterday. It sickened me. It broke my heart And thank God, it wasn't one of my kids...in fact, it wasn't a child at all. It was a grown man. And it wasn't his parent, it was Yahweh-God. See, many like him have fallen under the false thought, teaching, and assumption that they can command and demand things to happen - like God is a genie that is there to do their bidding. No, they don't believe in the scriptures where it plainly states that we are to ASK. No, they believe in commanding and demanding. I know you've seen it:

"In the name of Jesus I decree and declare..." "It WILL be so, in Jesus' name..." "I SPEAK it right now!"

No where in God's word does He say we are to do this. In everything, we are to ask and petition. Asking requires humbleness....this decreeing and declaring is just the opposite. Yes, we are to be bold when coming before our Father - but that is a holy boldness with reverence of WHO we are approaching. He never gave us permission to boss Him around just because we use His name. He defintely never gave us the power to "speak" stuff into existence. That's just a ridiculous thought altogether.

Let's quick look at some examples...

Hebrews 5:7-9

New Living Translation (NLT)

7 While Jesus was here on earth, he offered prayers and pleadings, with a loud cry and tears, to the one who could rescue him from death. And God heard his prayers because of his deep reverence for God. 8 Even though Jesus was God’s Son, he learned obedience from the things he suffered. 9 In this way, God qualified him as a perfect High Priest, and he became the source of eternal salvation for all those who obey him.

And then when you get a chance, read John 17. Even Jesus Himself never commanded God to do anything in this prayer. In His daily life and in His prayer life, He speech was consistent - "if it be Your will" "the will of My Father"....Hebrews says His prayers were answered because of his deep reverence for God. He never came demanding, decreeing, or commanding anything from Him.

Now, let's look at something else....

Isaiah 14:13-14

New Living Translation (NLT)

13 For you said to yourself,‘I will ascend to heaven and set my throne above God’s stars. I will preside on the mountain of the gods far away in the north. 14 I will climb to the highest heavens and be like the Most High.’

There's no asking there. Sounds like a lot of "declaring and decreeing" doesn't it? Sounds kind of prideful doesn't it? Sounds like they want to take God's place doesn't it? And who is doing this talking? Satan himself. Yes...THIS is what declaring and decreeing boils down to. The same trickery that he used in the garden - to be like God, to take over His will.

What I learned today: There are many who will fall away and hearts turn cold because they don't realize they entertain the teaching of demons. Declaring and decreeing have no place in a humble heart. I recognize I am the clay and my Father in heaven is the potter. His will is what matters. I ask, He listens and answers and what He wills to happen, will happen. Anything more is deception by the evil one..... 

What I Learned Today: You Doin' Too Much, The Pastor Could Be Wrong, Sapling vs Tree

Hey! Quick run down of just three things I learned over the weekend, well mainly today because I didn't do much over the weekend - although, I always learn even when I'm not doing much....

1. Stop trying to compare yourself to other people and just "run your race". Keep your hands in your own pot and out of others. Biological lesson, every part of your body has a job and can't do the other's. Even blood cells are specific with specific jobs. If the white blood cells tried to do the red blood cells job, you wouldn't be able to fight off infections well. If the red tried to do the white, you wouldn't be able to breath. So learn to just "stay in your lane". Don't try to be like everyone else, just focus on your job...otherwise, you're doin too much.

2. There is always talk from pastors talking about "you're comin out!!"...it's a typical feel good message. But did you ever think that maybe your NOT coming out b/c that is where God wants you to be? Yes, in the book of Jeremiah, there is a great example of how God told him to prophecy that His own people would be put into bondage - slavery to a terrible king. No one could ever imagine God doing that now days because we are always taught that God doesn't want us "burdened"...that He wants to "set us free"....pastors are good for "prophesying" those things. Well, let them be warned, there was a prophet who wanted the people to believe that God was going to "bring them out" so he prophesied falsely. The same prophet that prophesied like how many pastors do now, in the book of Jeremiah died as a result of him lying. Yes, sometimes you are meant to be put in bondage because that is a bigger part of your freedom.

3. I watched a movie last night about the faith of the "founding fathers" of this country. I'll just say, declare, AND repeat again...they were NOT Christians and THIS is NOT a Christian Country or Country founded on Christian principles. Never has been never will be. I suggest watching this show for more information and doing deep research before coming with opposition. Anyway, my girls and I were talking and one of them said something profound when I expressed concern of telling them of so much "truth" so early in their lives...she said and I paraphrase "It's easier to change the course of a tree when it's a sapling, rather than when it's a full grown tree."  So true with every thing in life...

GN!!

What I've Learned Today: Mind, Heart, Mouth connection, Jumping Leads to Inspiration, They Drink WHAT?

WARNING: This is a griping session. Please scroll on if you do not want to read....

Ok, so in the last two days I have seen some of THE most VULGAR foolishness in video. The first one was of a so called "pastor" who was so called "preaching" to her congregation. The point she was making was not letting people abuse you. But the way she said it, she may as well have been making a porn video. Some people say "it's not that serious, Deidra." But when your "pastor" acknowledges that what she said could be damaging to your children sitting there listening to her (and I quote "I hope the babies didn't hear what I said") but then goes on and says it again numerous times, in the same, if not more descriptive and vulgar way, literally *screaming* into a microphone and all the MEN are getting hyped up? You know you're out of order.

The second one was of a video who's purpose was:
1. To get your attention and ...
2. Try to convince you not to "hate" (read: have an opinion) by shaming those who do have an opinion about the subject, and subconsciously telling others to hate those who do not believe the way they do.

Crazy, hunh? The sad part is that the campaign used a very vulgar word - and worse yet, had children as young as what looks to be 4 saying it. Now, I don't know if you remember but a few days ago, I wrote a blog about a young child that was taken out of his home for being taught vulgarity by those around them. I ask you, what's the difference? Is it the fact that the child in the campaign was "cussin for a cause"? Was it because the child was dressed up in make-up and in front of a "professional" recording team? I mean, keep in mind, the other child was being recorded as well, but from a camera phone.

There is a huge problem when we as a society feel that it is ok to be so vulgar and accepting of letting go of just plain decency. Ten years ago, you would have neeeever heard things like this. This is a serious barometer of where our hearts are as a people. And if YOU are a "christian" and think that I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill, may I direct you to the words of the One you claim to believe in....

Matthew 15:17-20(NIV)

17 “Don’t you see that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and then out of the body? 18 But the things that come out of a person’s mouth come from the heart, and these defile them. 19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. 20 These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them.”

Matthew 12:34-35(NIV)

34 You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. 35 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.

Proverbs 4:23(NIV)

23 Above all else, guard your heart,for everything you do flows from it.

What I Learned today: There will be no end to depravity until the Lord returns and it's starting by planting small seeds in the hearts and minds of children. 
If you condone or even participate this type of foolishness (manner of speech and thought), you have a dirty and vile heart. I submit, that if you are a "christian" you haven't been converted and really need to reevaluate your salvation and relationship with Christ. Yeah, I said it....you need to question your salvation.

DefyGravity

Not My Family Or My Kids....just sayin

We went there today and had a WONDERFUL time. You want a good workout? Go there or a place like it. Oh goodness that was so much fun. DefyGravity is a trampoline park here in our area. We had to drive a little ways to get to it though. Good thing, they are going to build one right in our city! Well, while there, I really got to see my kids in all their splendor. My son quickly made some "big kid" (teen/college age) friends who taught and encouraged him to jump off stuff and do flips. He got to spend time with his dad doing the same. I watched my daughter jump and squeal and flip. While there we all got to see parkour for real. People running on walls and jumping off of them, doing all kinds of trampoline tricks. It was awesome. So awesome, that my children have decided, they want to learn parkour. Lord, help me. LOL

What I learned today: Trampolining is tiring but so much fun. And I'm actually excited to see my kids interested in something as unique as parkour. 

Ted Talks
Tonight is "Ted Talk Thursday" in our house. Just got finished watching one about how in Mogadishu unemployment equals terrorism but they are trying to change that by encouraging the young people there to be entrepreneurs. It was a good one. But there was one thing they slipped in there that they musta thought we wouldn't catch...

What I learned today: People drink camel milk....??!!

GN!!

What I've Learned Today: Peppercorn and Cinnamon, Simple Math Can Save Your Life

PBS is so enlightening. Sat here tonight and learned where and how peppercorn and cinnamon is made. Not only was that intriguing, but they also went into culture and religion. I must say, while the "religion" isn't for me, I sure would love to explore more of their culture.

What I Learned Today: The difference between black and white pepper is that black peppercorn "fruit" is dried out in the sun, and white peppercorn is soaked in water.
Cinnamon really does come from tree bark. You have to cut the branch off the tree and "skin" it. I don't know where I thought it came from, but that was all kinds of interesting.
Even with technology, there is nothing more fascinating than seeing how something is done by hand. The care, knowledge, and stories/culture behind it all is amazing!

Easy To See If You Know What To Look For

Wolves in Sheeps' Clothing

Real quick. Just a warning. There is no shortage of false teachers and preachers. And oooooooh since the beginning of time, the Lord said that they WILL have their due. It is NOT going to be pretty for them. So, if you are one, I suggest you repent and get on the good foot with the Lord. But that's not the point of this. I want to talk to those sitting under them and might not know it. I learned this little ditty just by a quick search...the mathematics of false gospel....

What I Learned Today: Addition to scripture - often coming by either making up stuff that's not in the bible, or taking verses out of context. Either way, God didn't say it and if you know your Word, your ears should perk up.
Subtraction of the deity of the Messiah Yeshua (Jesus the Christ) - Many religions will take away the deity of Christ. They will say he's an "angel" or a "great prophet" or "our brother from another planet". In our churches they make Him into a slot machine and one to be manipulated (He is "required" to work on OUR behalf). If they deny His deity, they quickly fall under - 1 John 4:1-3. Multiplication of "membership" gets you a ticket to heaven OR other "requirements" get you into heaven - many religions and even denominations of Christianity put the unnecessary burden of "works" to attain salvation. This is not true in the true faith in Christ. Division of bretheren. If you are under a leadership where you are not allowed to talk with those who do not go to your "church", or if you are encouraged to ostracize members who have left your congregation, know that is NOT of God.

GN!!

What I've Learned Today: Geology, Helping a Boy Understand His God-given Purpose, Kids in Adult Bodies

Pictured: A bunch'a rocks.

Today was the first day we talked about geology. Even though it's my first time. I honestly think that this is one of my least favorite subjects. I would put it riiiiight under math - very close second....very close. But my kids LOVED it. Go figure. Meh. Now I have to figure out how to make myself love it. I mean, don't get me wrong. I love God, Jesus, The Holy Spirit and ALL of their creations. But man, a rock is a rock (and it shall NOT cry out in my name ;-) - a lil biblical humor for ya...anyway). I mean, how much more can you teach about rocks, rubies and diamonds? I just don't wanna. So, any suggestions are more than welcome. I think tomorrow we'll take a trip to the jewelry store. I gotta do something, or else my kids won't know about rocks! LOL

What I Learned Today: I really need the help of some of you folks out there. How do you get yourself interested in something that you have no interest in but KNOW it will benefit someone else? How would you teach about geology.....rocks?

My son in the shadow of his dad.

Today, after a question my son asked during bible study, we started talking about the importance of men to God. It's funny to see my little guy trying to be like his daddy. He tries to "take care" of me while we are out. He says he's practicing to be a husband. Often times I catch him mimicking his daddy in the way he walks. Lately, he's been into sports - sitting next to my husband asking questions and calling out "FLAG!!" or "FOUL!!". It's cute. But there is so much more I wanted him to understand today. I wanted him to understand that boys seek wisdom from godly men, so that one day, they too can be men that God can use. I explained that satan is doing a great job in confusing little boys in WHO they were created to be and why. I explained that little boys who seek wisdom from godly men grow up to be great leaders of their homes and society, of their friends and coworkers, and most importantly of God's kingdom. I explained to him the "role" of a godly woman is not to lead, but we were created equally important as support to godly men that God has placed in leadership - both in our homes and elsewhere. I think that sparked a fire in him. He takes his job as a little boy seriously and I can't wait to see the man that he becomes.

What I learned today: Little boys need to know their purpose in Christ just as much as grown men do. Put it in terms they can understand and they will latch on to it.

Godly men are desperately needed in our boys lives. It's not enough to talk about it, we really must push to do it. The enemy is having a field day with those young boys who don't have that kind of structure in place.

Please grow up. Seeing you act this way is not cute.

There is nothing worse than seeing a developmentally arrested adult. I have witnessed so many adults lately stuck in their child/teen/early adulthood. Reliving mentalities that they should have long been separated from. Paul put it best when he said:

For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. - 1 Corinthians 13:9-12 NIV

And maybe that's just it. There are a bunch of broken, incomplete kids posing as adults. I know, this verse is talking about the completeness when the Lord returns. But if you don't go that deep and just look at "but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears"...and then it moves right into when he was a child he did childish things, but when he grew up he put all of that stuff behind him - it speaks volumes. It's childish to try to "relive" your teenybopper years, your young adult years. There's no way I should see in pictures or hear about someone who is knocking on 40, 50, or 60 still going out to the SAME club dancing to the SAME songs, drinking their SAME favorite drinks they drank when they were 20, and, I'll give you 30. Where is the leadership in teaching the younger generation there's a "better way"? I mean, what are you gonna teach them? The new electric slide? And don't get me started on those still living out their college years - going to homecomings and acting like you did with the same group of people when you were 18, and you are half past 40. It's time to grow up. It's time that we who call ourselves adults step up and be the people that this younger generation can come and seek wisdom from. And they won't if they see you living like they are. In fact, I submit that you can't because that would be the blind leading the blind.....

What I Learned Today: The younger generation's deficiency comes from childish adults.
Childish adults have unaddressed brokenness and incompleteness. Because when they are whole, what is "in part",what is broken, disappears and they can put the childish things they are trying to recapture away..... 

GN!!

What I've Learned Today: How to turn a bunch of nothin into a dream....

Today was about as mundane as days can get. Hubby came home and asked "How was your day?" Now, here's the thing - I ask him that daily, and he actually has an answer. Someone or something ticked him off at work, or a program he's been working on finally started working (he loves small victories), or he had lunch with his co-workers at some nice restaurant, or he took a non-smoking "smoke break" and saw a squirrel chase his tail - what ever it is, he has something to tell me.

But when he asks me, I just sit there like.......

I mean, I appreciate his concern. But my day almost always consists of coercing two kids to finish up their work so that we can move on to something else. Fussing about things I tell them constantly like "PUT SOMETHING ON YOUR FEET!!" or "WHO had the BREAD last??". Or answering to "Mommy....mommy....mommy.....are you in the bathroom?"  I mean, I'm not exactly working on solving the world's economy problems here.

Don't get me wrong. I LOVE this life. Many mothers wish they could be home and know that the bills will get paid, spend countless hours with their children, and being able to get involved in different activities without concern of having to "take off". But yeah, asking "how was your day" isn't gonna be any different than yesterday or the day before lol. I think he sensed what I was feeling so he flipped the script on me. He asked me what would I have liked my day to be like.

Errrrm'gerd!! I love that man!!!

Ahhhh-HA! He gets me! I mean what a question! That thing opened up a whole world of possibility that I quickly rattled off. I think part of it was being off in a far land. And he had the nerve to ask if I would take the kids....maaaaan, don't be messin up my dream!! LOL And although I knew none of those things could possibly ever happen, it was nice just to close my eyes and let my mind go for a little bit.

What I've learned today: It's ok to dream of another life, but just remember to appreciate the one you really do have.

A well thought out question from your spouse can make you somehow make you feel appreciated. It's like when they ask it, you know they hear and see and understand your struggle!

Power to da people in da struggle!!! *Moms unite!*

What I've Learned Today (Weekend Edition): History, Protection, Kid's Creativity

This weekend was an action packed one. This family had a lot going on.

1. On Saturday, we all went to the history museum. While it was a good visit. I have come to the conclusion that history is mostly told in the eyes of the "winner" and it's doctored to favor the "winners" as well. While there were good facts depicted, you could tell that the "history" was shown to make it palatable for the visitors.

What I learned: I see now, I'm going to have to teach things to my children that history won't.

2. While in the museum, our county was under a tornado warning. Everyone's phones were beeping with alert. Some people were coming into the building seeking shelter and protection. It crossed my mind how some people can be so alarmed at the potential of danger and run to seek shelter from it. But when it comes to spiritual danger, people are very nonchalant.

What I learned: Seek shelter in Him now before the warning horn blasts. By then, it will be too late.

3. All week, my children during school learned about the Galapagos Islands and the Blue-footed Booby. It was a great study of God's creation as well as other things. I gave them an assignment to put together a presentation. This will not only help them solidify what they learned by teaching it to others, but to also feel comfortable speaking in front of groups. They did an amazing job! My daughter composed music to accompany a bible verse, my son sung a song, and they both presented their material well.

What I learned: I need to turn them loose more often to create. When I don't try to guide them in everything and just let them do what they do, they really

What I've Learned Today: The Children, Our Future?, The Sound of the Bible, For Your Listening Enjoyment

If you can stomach it, check out this video that's made nation-wide attention. Warning, there is MUCH vulgarity in this video. It's completely disgusting. It will make you angry, and want to rip the lips off of those who are suppose to "know better". This video will make you question the future of our children in a world that no longer sees innocence. This video will flat out make you shudder with fear with what this child could become.......Toddler Learns Depravity

If you can't stomach this video, here's the long story short. There is a baby, yes, a baby - still in diapers with speech barely intelligeble who has learned the "art" of cussin' with the sailors. He has learned to disrespect authority figures. He has learned sexuality. He has learned how to talk back. He has learned how to be argumentative. He has learned that he has no value. He has learned that "home" is in the streets. He has learned to identify with crime - and be proud of it. He has learned......to be a thug.

Thankfully, he has been taken out of this environment. And I pray that he will be put somewhere were he will learn to be an active, important, and contributing piece of our community rather than someone I'm going to dread seeing in the next few years. I pray that I will get to see him as this....

 

and not this.....

 

"Our community" really needs a wake-up call.....

What I learned today: "Train up a child in the way he should go; and when he is old he will not depart from it." works BOTH ways.
Saving our future starts with the hearts of our babies.

The Sound of the Bible

I read the bible daily. Every time I read it, I read it in my voice - just as I suspect that you all do when you read a literary work. Today I actually listened to it online. And MAN, there's a vast difference between reading powerful verses in my voice compared to hearing it boom in a bass voice coming from a man. Verses that seemed docile to me actually made me sit up and take notice, or struck a chord of holy fear that I hadn't before.

What I learned today: I need a deeper reading voice in my head LOL

Listen!

Ok, this isn't what I learned, but I just wanted to share. For your listening enjoyment. The human body is amazing! The coordination between brain and body in this man is simply amazing....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNZBSZD16cY&list=TLuh8PaErnFwpvOot76CuzyyIUb9WmZQ49

Am I A "Militant Christian"? - A Look At My Take on Being A Soldier For Christ

Written on March 12, 2013 at 12:19am


I have been told on three different occasions that I am a “militant” or “angry” Christian. Right after, on two occasions, I was told that I needed more love (I can draw more people with honey rather than vinegar and I can’t wait for God to release me to write about “love”) or I was reminded about Paul, and how I’m neglecting his writings.

So, when I get an accusation like that, I figure, I need to take a step back and do self-examination. Am I off base with my beliefs? What are my beliefs? Do they line up with the word of God and not some pastor or author of some books that you find on Amazon or Barnes and Nobles?  Then, what about Paul and the things that he taught? Most importantly, what about Jesus, and the things that He taught? I’m going to take a little time to explore, and I ask that you take that journey with me. BUT, before we do, we must come to agreement on two things:

1. It is always important to test yourself to see if you are in the faith (2 Corinthians 13:5)
2. The Word of God is true, without error, and used for instruction and correction (2 Timothy 3:16-17) 

I guess it’s probably best to start off with my belief, which is really hard to do because my view of theology is complex, yet so simple. How do I explain that? Well, what I mean by complex is being a disciple of Christ is not easy, yet, His call to salvation is. For example, Jesus plainly tells us that not everyone who says “Lord, Lord” will enter into the kingdom of heaven (will be saved), yet, only those who do the will of His Father will. So that lets me know, there is more to being a disciple than just “saying” and “thinking” I’m a Christian, or being a Christian in name only. My “works” don’t “save” me, but they certainly do make a statement of Who I am serving and who I am. However, salvation is so simple. God says, if you hear His voice, harden not your heart – or else you will be deceived by sin (Hebrews 3). Then all you have to do is recognize your sin as direct disobedience and an offense to God and His character (Psalm 51:4), repent (turn away from them, *stop it!*)(Revelation 2:16, Ezekiel 14:6, Joel 2:12, Matthew 3:8) and accept His gift of salvation (Romans 10:9) by believing in faith that Jesus is the only way, the Truth and the Life (John 14:16) – that through His shed blood, we are redeemed (1 Peter 1: 18-19) . See? It’s simple, yet complex.

I also believe that if we are TRULY following Christ, our thinking will start to change, and we won’t see the world the same way (Romans 12:2). You will start to see the error in other’s thinking and the thinking in society as contrary to what God says and thinks. You will see the blatant attack on your faith and those who you thought were friend or even fellow Christians will turn against you. You will find true companionship in others who are genuinely following Christ, and see that you all have the same types of persecution and I’m not talking about “haters”.  But, no wonder - you all are following the most hated One ever – and He warns us about this (John 15:18, Matthew 10:22). You also will learn or discern how to check the fruit (Matthew 7:16) to see if what people (yes even pastors) say line up with the Word of God. In other words, you will find out who are the sheep and who are the fakers/goats/false teachers. You will learn to hear the voice of Christ (John 10:27-30), the Good Shepherd (John 10:11), through studying and knowing His word (2 Timothy 2:15). This is important because He warns that there will be many that will come in His name, but will teach false things (Matthew 24:3-5,10-11). I believe that once you know His voice, you will start to feel comfortable warning others or standing up for God’s word. Not that it has to be proven, but in a world that needs to hear, if you know the truth, you better live it and speak up, otherwise, you do have blood on your hands (Ezekiel 33:1-9). I believe that once you KNOW God, you will not only start to fear Him but reverence Him as well (Psalm 34:9). Last, I believe that once you know God, you will not live in sin (1 John 5:18).

When I was “in the church”  I fell victim of false teachings. I even once became a pastor pleaser, putting him on a pedestal. I devoured and gluttoned myself on his every word instead of God – trusting him for my salvation and knowledge because, why would my pastor tell me wrong? I witnessed men emasculated and I witnessed myself becoming fearful and subservient to a man that is not my husband or my God. There were several more times after that, where I now realized God allowed me to “sit under” or be “sat on” by those pastors and false doctrines so that I will know what to look out for and how to warn others. These experiences did make me “militant”. And I thank God for that.

So, how have I become militant you may ask? Let's first look at the definition of "militant"....

Militant:
adjective
1. vigorously active and aggressive, especially in support of a cause: militant reformers.
2.engaged in warfare; fighting.
noun
3. a militant person.
4. a person engaged in warfare or combat.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/militant

These definitions would fit 1 Timothy 6:12 and 2 Timothy 4:7, as well as Ephesians 6:10-18. And, here are a few other ways that I identify with being “militant”…..

• I stand firm and don’t compromise the Word of God (1 Corinthians 16:13, Ephesians 6:11, Colossians 1:23). One thing that you will notice is that since seeking and finding the truth of GOD for myself, I will stand firm in my belief. I am very open to discussion, but the case is closed on my faith in the triune God and God alone. Through my experiences and my study of scripture, I have learned to discern when something is being said and is a lie about God. I’m not afraid to call it out.
• I stay watchful (1 Peter 5:8, Ephesians 5:14, 1 Thessalonians 5, Luke 21:34-36). Have you noticed the temperament of “Christians” lately? Many have been lulled to sleep by this world. A lot has to do with the love of their life more than God, the prosperity gospel and other false gospels, some has to do with not thinking that Jesus can come back at any moment and they have “time”. But Jesus told an important parable in Matt 25 of the 10 virgins. Many were unprepared for His return, and many Christians will be that way too. Why? Because they love the cares of this world, the music, material things, the shallowness of it all. Many also have “itching ears” and refuse sound doctrine. Therefore will fall prey to false teachings and beliefs about God.
• I am ready to suffer and stand alone and even die for my faith in Christ (Matthew 5:10-12, 10:39, John 15:20, Psalm 129:2, 2 Timothy 2:3). There have been on more than one occasion where I had to stand alone for the gospel of Christ. There have been times where I’ve been “attacked” by fellow “Christians” for speaking simply what the bible (not the pastor) actually says. I suspect that there will be tougher times as well. And I welcome it. Why? Because I have learned that if the world loves what you are saying, you ain’t sayin it right.
• I am willing and able to follower my General’s commands (Matthew 7:21, Ephesians 6:6, 1 Peter 4:2). There are times in my life where I want to do something, say something, and go somewhere. But I hear the voice of God and the unction of the Holy Spirit telling me “No”. There are times where I Don’t want to do, say, or go and the Father tells me “GO”! There are times where I want to forge ahead in getting a point across and the Holy Spirit says “Shhhh. No more.” And as hard as it is to obey, I have learned that it’s in my best interest. I, as a mere “soldier”, cannot supersede my General’s commands. It’s hard, because you have to learn to lay down your own desires and will in order to be in line with His. But it is really worth it in the end. 

So, am I militant in my walk? I am inclined to say yes. I am also inclined to say everyone who claims to be a disciple of Christ should be. We are in a spiritual battle – we war not against flesh and blood but against spiritual darkness in high places. We are kidding ourselves if we think that we can follow Christ and be placating Christians holding hands and kumbaya-ing with every Tom, Dick, and Harry, or every false doctrine or non-believer out there. The adversary, the devil, satan is NOT playing with us. He is playing for keeps, coming to steal, kill and destroy us all. And it would behoove every believer to put on their spiritual armor, get on the wall, and cry aloud “REPENT! FOR THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS AT HAND!”.

Militantly yours for Christ,

Deidra

Addendum: This fell on my heart again this morning. I want to encourage the real soldiers of the True and Living God to suit up. The times ahead are going to be hard. Compromising the Word to appease others WILL lead you into the strong delusion that our Father warns us is coming. There is a vast difference between what's "almost true" and what's TRUTH. Now is the time to pray for discernment, wisdom, courage, and boldness. Now is the time to let go of worldly thoughts and wants and focus on your training....to be His soldier. - May Yahweh-God keep you in sound mind and body.....

What I've Learned Today: Homeschooling Works!, Let Dead Things Stay Dead, Be the Voice of Reason

My husband and I embarked on this homeschooling journey this year. I often look around at posts on Facebook to get ideas, but more than I like, run across questions that just baffle me. I read about people wondering how to handle family members that don't "accept" their decision to homeschool, people feeling anxiety that they can't teach their child, people trying to find the "next best" homeschool curriculum, and people wondering even after years of doing this, if this was the right decision.

I thank God, that I didn't have this problem. I had a supportive husband, family, and friends. I knew that this was going to be a great decision because I prayed about it and got confirmation more than once. After research, I knew how I wanted to run "my school" and what I wanted my children to learn. And we've been having a great time learning since. Sure, there are things I would like to do better - find more "outside" learning activities that introduce my children to the world they live in...for FREE or low cost lol - but all in all, I am loving this journey God put me on.

I sometimes wonder why has this been so easy for me. I think much of it is because I put my faith in what I know to be true. And those things are this:

1. It is my husband's and my responsibility to train our children. 

Proverbs 22:6 (KJV) 

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

I get to teach them what matters most to us as well as give them a well rounded education. I get to guide them in exploring things that interest them. I get to influence them and their decision making - not someone else who only knows my children for about 7 hours a day, and not other children that may have different worldviews and upbringing than my children.

2. God has equipped me for this service.

2 Timothy 2:24 (NLT) 

A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people.

Think about it. We teach our children everyday, and sometimes can be some of the most difficult people we come across in a 24 hour span. And, sure, our teaching may not be institutional teaching, but we teach our children how to follow directions, how to read, how to dial a phone, how to do daily living. And not once do we really worry about if we are "doing" it right. We trust that we are raising and teaching our children in the best way we know how. Yes, there are some parents that haven't gotten very far in their education and some "concepts" may be hard to understand. Some parents may have a very skewed moral compass. But, for the most part all of us have the ability to teach - good or bad. The bonus is when we have a pure heart and can also teach skills as well as godly character! So, yes, God has equipped me for service to our children.

So, if you are thinking about homeschooling, if it has ever crossed your mind and you've talked yourself out of it because you think you can't "do it", I challenge you to kill the negative talk. Take inventory of what you know to teach, and discover with your child what you know you don't know! Grow together with them...this homeschool thing really works! And just like the gospel of Christ, it's not as hard as people make it out to be.

What I've Learned Today: Think of homeschooling as living, exploring, and discovery - it's what you do everyday.


Don't Return To What's Dead 

I learned from an experience I had today - well, yesterday. And it reminded me of the story of Sampson. I know many of us may have heard of this extraordinary biblical man. He was a man of great strength, also a man of pride and disobedience which also became his downfall. He was a man who was born to be set apart from the rest. God had given his parents special instructions in how to raise him and a set of rules he was to follow to stay pure. As Samson grew older, he defied those rules the Lord gave him. One such rule was to not touch anything dead. Well, as it is written, one day, Samson defeated a lion. Completely killed it. After killing it, he went on his way. Eventually, Samson returns the same route he left and he sees the carcass of the lion, but this time, a colony of honeybees set up shop in the lion. Instead of Samson following his instructions of not touching anything dead, he saw the honey was good to eat, and returned to the dead lion and defiled himself.

There is a strong parable here that I have to point out really quick that goes hand in hand with what I learned today. God calls His children to be like Samson - set apart. When we chose to live by His rules and instructions, He gives us power. It may not be physical strength, but there's power that He gives to equip us to walk in His way and do His works, as well as live holy before Him. He gives us the power to kill situations that are before us so that we can walk on without fear and live in victory. But while He gives us clear instructions, He also gives us freedom of choice. Samson could have chose a different route. We too, once we kill something that prevented us from walking closer to God can choose a different route so not to come back in contact with that "something". When we choose to be like Samson and return to what is dead because it's enticing (that relationship, that argument, the street life, that friendship etc), we defile ourselves before Him. So is the situation that I encountered and learned from yesterday.

taken from Artist Alexandra Beguez
http://www.alexandrabeguez.com/SAMSON

What I learned today: If He gave you the power to kill it, don't touch it! Chiiiile, let that thang stay dead! The honey is not that sweet....believe Him.

Voice of Reason

My children and I are learning about wisdom this month. I taught them that wisdom is totally different than intelligence and knowledge. Wisdom is the application of what you know. Sometimes not everyone uses wisdom because not everyone has the knowledge to do so. And sometimes that might not be because they haven't studied something, but because they are emotionally blind and can't access the knowledge so that they can use the wisdom. For example, if person A is in an argument and person B comes to their defense - person B could be emotionally blind, not access or gain knowledge of the full situation, or make good knowledgeable decision making, and therefore can't use wisdom to help the person or defuse the altercation appropriately. This can cause more harm than good. IF WE ARE IN CHRIST, we must always remember to be the peacemakers He has called us to be IF you can help in the situation. If not, just hold your peace and pray.

What I learned today: Use wisdom to help bring truth and peace - don't be a pot stirrer.

GN!!

What I've Learned Today: A Lesson In Mercy, A Daddy's Voice, Nothin Like Ya Girls

Today, my son got a lesson in mercy. He doesn't get into trouble often. When he does, it's usually a good meaningful fussing-out that will make him question why in the world he ever did what he did. But today, he broke some rules that I have time after time warned him about. Today, I couldn't overlook them. So, I called him downstairs and before I could even get a word out, he came to me tearfully confessing his faults. He knew exactly what he did wrong, and told me his process of thinking of why he did it. He looked at me ready to accept punishment for what he did wrong - no matter what it was. And before sentencing, looked at me and said "Mommy, thank you for loving me and disciplining me" *DAGGER in the heart why don'tcha boy?!*  I said "You're welcome" and gave him the choice to choose his punishment - both equally harsh, just one more swift than the other. Now, I'm standing there admiring this young boy for 1, being brave, 2, for acknowledging his transgression, and 3 being willing and ready to accept punishment. In that instant, I felt the Holy Spirit say "Mercy". OOOOOOO HOW I wanted to lay into this boy with all the power I had, but the Spirit saved his life by one little five letter word "Mercy".  It makes me think, is this how the Father is with His children who diligently seek after Him? His children who's only desire is to please Him and separate from this world? Soooo many times we have disappointed Him, so many times we deserved His harsh discipline, but instead He gives us mercy. Thank you for that lesson Father....

Proverbs 28:13 - People who conceal their sins will not prosper but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy.

What I've learned today: A healthy parental relationship directly reflects the relationship of the Father Yahweh and His children.
Mercy will save your life.
If you want a good blog on Mercy, check here

My Daddy

This is my dad. I'm sure you could tell that just by lookin at us. I'm his twin, except I don't have a mustache and I look a lil washed out in this pic lol. I wish I could say that he was the first man I fell in love with. But, the truth is, he wasn't. We've had our ups and downs just like any family would. BUT, by the grace of God, we have forgiven, and moved on. And I am proud to say I have learned to love this man from the bottom of my toes. I had to privilege to stay with him a couple of weeks last month. I can honestly say, from my remembrance, that is the most time that I've spent with this man consecutively. And I learned so much about him. You know what's funny? We spent so much time together that now he's even calling me to see "Que Pasa?" No, he's not Hispanic. But it's his catch phrase. Before it seemed kinda hard to talk with him, but lately it hasn't been strange to spend an hour at a time just shootin the breeze with this guy. And I love it.

What I've learned today: Holding a grudge to the past gets you no where and nothing. Forgiveness blossoms into relationships that you wonder how you did without. Love you dad!!

My Girls

So, I have a group of women that I've grown very close to over the year and some change. We've laughed, cried, prayed, studied God's word, vacationed, and just been there for each other. It's a true godly friendship that I wish every woman could experience. Tonight, we just sat on the phone and chatted for about 2 hours straight. About life, love, God, and foolishness. I've belonged to a lot of "cliques" before. I've been involved in a lot of groups. Heck, I was in a sorority. But I don't think I have ever felt the level and deepness of comradery that I feel with these women. If you are a woman, and you say you "can't get along with other women." I challenge you to do one of two things: 1. Check yourself and see if you are the common denominator in failed relationships. or 2. Find some REAL godly women that know what it means to be a friend.

What I learned today: There is nothing like having women that you can count on spiritually, mentally, and physically. I love those women to heaven and back!!  Hey y'all!!!

GN!!

What I've Learned Today - Parts of a Whole

Hey everyone! I know, I usually do more than one WILT in a post. But, it's late, and I have to get up in the
morning.

This post comes fresh off of the heels of the BCS Championship game. I'm sure just about the whole world saw it as the #1 FSU took on #2 Auburn for all the marbles. It was a pretty good game. It really looked like FSU was going to take a loss this time around by how they played in the first half. But, they pulled through victorious. That in and of itself is a good WILT. But that's not what I want to talk about right now.

In the beginning of the game, Auburn had the opportunity to kick a field goal. For all of you non-football watchers out there, that play would have given them three points. The kicker missed it. Instantly, my husband and I looked at each other and he said "I wonder if that's going to come back and bite them in the butt." I nodded my head in agreement as I have seen things like that happen time and time again. BUT never fear, that was just the beginning of the first quarter and there was a lot of football left in the game.

Well, as the game went on a few more lead changes happened. And each time FSU got back on top, guess how much it was by? Yep, three points. At the end of the game, FSU won....guess by how much? Yep, those three points.

What I've Learned Today: Never underestimate the importance of your part. It may seem insignificant to you in the beginning, but your part could be the very part that would make you and your team victorious.

1 Corinthians 12:12-26

New Living Translation (NLT)

One Body with Many Parts

12 The human body has many parts, but the many parts make up one whole body. So it is with the body of Christ. 13 Some of us are Jews, some are Gentiles, some are slaves, and some are free. But we have all been baptized into one body by one Spirit, and we all share the same Spirit.

14 Yes, the body has many different parts, not just one part. 15 If the foot says, “I am not a part of the body because I am not a hand,” that does not make it any less a part of the body. 16 And if the ear says, “I am not part of the body because I am not an eye,” would that make it any less a part of the body? 17 If the whole body were an eye, how would you hear? Or if your whole body were an ear, how would you smell anything?

18 But our bodies have many parts, and God has put each part just where he wants it. 19 How strange a body would be if it had only one part! 20 Yes, there are many parts, but only one body. 21 The eye can never say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The head can’t say to the feet, “I don’t need you.”

22 In fact, some parts of the body that seem weakest and least important are actually the most necessary. 23 And the parts we regard as less honorable are those we clothe with the greatest care. So we carefully protect those parts that should not be seen, 24 while the more honorable parts do not require this special care. So God has put the body together such that extra honor and care are given to those parts that have less dignity. 25 This makes for harmony among the members, so that all the members care for each other. 26 If one part suffers, all the parts suffer with it, and if one part is honored, all the parts are glad.

What I've Learned Today: Weekend Edition - I Am Like My Mother, Football Idols, Never Underestimate Bible Study with Your Kids

I grew up in the mid-west, Wisconsin to be exact. Winters are brutal there. I remember many times walking out the door in subzero weather with no gloves on and a half open jacket. Of course, being vain because, really, who doesn't want to look cool in the cold? I mean, you couldn't show off your latest "Guess" shirt all bundled up under a coat.

During those times, there would be a shrill of a voice ringing in my ears out of now where: "Girl! WHERE are your GLOVES? You gone mess around and get arthritis!!" or "If you don't ZIP. UP. YOUR. COAAAT!" The voice was unmistakably my mother. To this day, she still does it, and you would think I would have learned my lesson.

Well, today, as I sat and watched the PACKER game, I saw the players out there with no sleeves or gloves. It's 12 below, and my first thought was: "WHERE are their GLOVES?! They are gonna mess around and get arthritis!"......some lessons just never leave you.

What I learned today: I am my mother, she trained me well.



It's JUST a GAME!

Hey, don't get me wrong. I love the game of football just as much as the next gal. And no, I don't like it for the "cute uniforms", or the guys and their muscles (I gots mah own guy f'alladat! *hehehe*). I genuinely love the competition and determination...and who doesn't love a great underdog story from time to time? And make nooooooo bones about it, I'm a PACKERS girl. Born, bred, and raised to be one. I remember watching the game on a small black and white TV on our kitchen table with my dad and his friends - cheering my head off and learning about the game. I LOVE it when the Pack pull off a close win. I LOVE it when we completely dominate on the field. I LOVE the intensity, the cheering, the armchair coaching.....it's what makes the game fun. BUT one thing I don't love - the aftermath of a loss to a rival team. I have family and friends who cheer for different teams. We joke each other when one team or another wins. But, NEVER would I EVER disrespect or throw away my friendship/relationships over a game. I wish I could say the same for others who take this game way too seriously. This play-off season has really brought the ugly out of some people. It's especially sad to see Christians act in such a way that you would think they never knew the joy of the Lord, Jesus Christ. I mean, down right mean and potty mouthed!

Should we be reminded? Philippians 2:3 ESV Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.

Use self control people. You aren't losing paychecks over this (unless you're betting...in which you have other issues smh), nor are you losing pensions. These people that played a part in the game from the QB and owners to the waterboy will go home to their loved ones, or hang out with each other on both sides of the ball, and break bread, joke, laugh, and get up and do it again on the next go around. And you....you will have broken friendships and a bitter heart - over a game. C'mon, get it together!

What I learned today: Priorities and perspective. Don't let your emotions over a game mess them up.

Bible Study

There's nothing I love to hear more than my husband teaching our kids from the Word of God. We don't "go to church". We've been call out of the institutional church by Yahweh-God for a while now. If you want to know more, just let me know - I won't go into it here b/c that's not what this post is about. So, because we don't go, we must teach our children what the Lord requires for salvation and the way He would want us to live. Today, my husband was teaching and the kids were asking so many great questions. To me it shows that not only were they interested, but they were processing the info.

....and he said unto them, Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God. - Mark 10:14

What I Learned Today: Children are just as interested in the Word of God as they are the latest cartoons. You just need to be willing to put in the effort of teaching and answering questions. Which means, you need to know the Word for yourself instead of waiting to be fed once a week.

GN!

What I Learned Today: Music, Insecurity, and Smiling

*Disclaimer - this is a "throwback". I don't know why I never posted it, but it applies just the same.*

Human nature is a funny thing. We have habits, things we hold on to to make us safe, walls we build and walls we tear down. It often makes you wonder, with our emotions always on, how in the world does anyone hold it together?

This morning showed me the difference. I was driving, coming back from a cancelled appointment (long story). It was still early, a little after 9am. I'm listening to my Christian music, bobbing my head, windows down. The sun was shining - it wasn't too hot, or too cold. Just peaceful and quiet. Then  out of no where, all of that peace was interrupted. I mean loud, profane and vile music emanating from this man's car. In a normal situation, I'd give them the "eye" and roll up my window. But this morning, I felt different. So instead of ignoring him, I looked him directly in the face and smiled.

I think I confused him. He looked back and tried to smile, but it look like his face was kinda stuck in the scowl. You could tell he wanted to, but he couldn't. It was very odd. The light turned green and off we went. While driving, I thought - "wow. I wonder how the REST of this guys day is going to go."

You see, we often times can set the atmosphere for our moods. This guy was intentionally setting the atmosphere of being angry, tense, hateful - I mean for goodness sake - the man couldn't even SMILE! When I'm not in a good mood, my little sister (well, she's a grown woman, but she's MY little sister) always says "D, do you need a touch?" meaning, do I need a hug. It's annoying, but makes me laugh because of what that little joke is connected to, every time.  Well, that day, I wasn't the one that needed a touch - he did! But he was so hateful looking that I'm sure that if someone was giving them out for free, they would have bypassed him. I would hate to be the person that said something wrong to him. Ugh, the day they must have had.

I had friend who put the incident quite succinctly. Our conversation went like this:

Him: There are people that thrive on that energy, many of whom use it as a defense mechanism to cover up insecurities, fears, etc....Being unhappy makes them feel safer, and seeing you happy is threatening to them... Surround them-self with a big angry wall so no one can hurt them, but then again, they perpetually l hurt themselves... Weird irony! 

Me: You always have been sooooo deep! That's so true though. The funny thing was, he tried to smile, but couldn't. I know it's moreso spiritual though. Bondage is a horrible thing. 

Him:  I agree it, it is spiritual...Who you are spiritually reflects in every aspect of your life. It affects the energy you put out, as well as the energy you take it...That's why he tried to smile, but could barely do so...At least your energy touched him enough for him to give it a shot... That might play across his mind today and alter his energy (hopefully)...

What I learned today: Be careful of what you take in naturally because it really does effect you spiritually. It changes both your outlook and character - as well as your "ever lasting life" - Smile! :-)

1 Thessalonians 5:22 ESV
Abstain from every form of evil.

Philippians 4:8 ESV
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.